Actually if I am growing in awareness then the transformation happens at deepest level of being but the people around could only notice the changes in him. The inner transformation is unique discovery for everyone and cannot be transferred.

But I am able to inform you about the recipe. You may find few clues in my pinned posts. The cheat code is to learn to act consciously. In order to make arrangement for bread and butter we needed to become more efficient like machine. In intense no-mind state when the ego drops by itself the transformation happens and we enter the kingdom of god.