I quote “He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.” ― Lao Tzu

It is my experience that in life the other is not all a matter. What matters is how I love, trust and deal with situation. The other is just giving opportunity to me to grow inwards, if I am able to tackle situations nicely. This lead me to enlightenment! I am separated but still I have high regards for my partner, as she is one of the big contributor behind my enlightenment.